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is it right for a 21 year old woman to have to sleep in boyfriends 14yr old brothers room?

everytime my boyfriend has family over, we get shoved in his little brothers room on a air bed! I dont think this is right! me and my boyfriend are both adults now. we always stay in his bedroom on our own any other time. but just because his gran thinks she's better than us, she takes over his room when she could stay in the living room. and his grandad (from otherside of family) could take the space in the little brothers room! i dont see a problem ! why do they! i just think its wrong that me ( also a guest) gets treated like one of the kids! im a grown woman and dont need to be sleeping in a kids room! my idea is me and my boyfriend take the living room and the grandpa takes the brothers room whilst the gran takes bfs room and parents stay in there room as normal!!! my suggestion works right?? i forgot to clarify.. the brother is actually there as well!! oh no no i dont live with them. and its not about sex! just privacy again the idea is that we are all there! this happens at special occasions only! i just dont feel comfortable moving out is a stupid suggestion. because the family all live so far away this is the only option. and me n my bf are both poor full time students. with jobs i mite add- any helpfull suggestions?

Public Comments

1. I think his family don't want you and your boyfriend together in the same room, because some *cough* interesting things could happen in that room since you guys are alone... But.. it's life, you can't always get your way.
2. As long as you are living with boyfriend's parents...it's their house...follow their wishes. If you want it any different, move out where you can set your own rules. At 21, most are out on their own. Marriage might just let you stay in your room. If not...move out. It's time.
3. get a hotel room.
4. how about your grown up adult butts move out on your own??? so no one will have to rearrange a doggone thing around your ungracious butt,, that is also a guest ??& still complaining?? or how about you 2 getting a hotel when company is in town ?? or you take your whining butt back home !! No on has to rearrange their lives around you !! You say your a guest as well then be great full instead of a pain in the ass over it !!
5. Your boyfriend is their child, part of their immediate family. It is very common for the immediate family to have to sleep on a couch or air matress when other family members come to visit. Especially when they are older, as it is more comfortable for them. So if you don't like the situation, get a hotel, otherwise, deal with it.
6. Why are you staying at the house? Do you live with them? If so you are NOT a guest be happy they let you live under their roof with their son. If you don't live with them then i'm guessing that you guys get the short end of this deal out of respect for the older members of the family and YES they should get the bedroom. Get a life if you don't like the sleeping arangments sleep elsewhere ... Grow Up
7. It would work, yes. Another thing that would work is if you (an adult) and your adult boyfriend became independent and had your own place to live. Then you could decide where everyone sleeps.
8. dont watste to much time worrying about this. These are old people your talking about let them be comfortable. Besides I am pretty sure his little brother would rather have you two in the room than his grandad. Teenagers think old people smell funny.
9. Stop complaining. They are your elders, they deserve to be comfortable. They have earned it. If you have a problem with the sleeping arrangements you do what every other adult in the known world does. GET A HOTEL ROOM!